What It Takes To Give A Perfect Blowjob

  • It's not unpleasant, but it takes a lot of work.  Easiest when pubic hair is shaved or trimmed.  It also keeps the area smelling more neutral, and that can be nice.
  • I use my hand and my mouth simultaneously.  Apparently this is cheating, but it's better than mouth cramps. Variety of movement seems to work well, alternating licking, mouthing and sucking.  Using the hand on the base of the penis, and across the head when my mouth gets tired.  Sometimes I massage the penis inside my cheek.  I frequently move down to the base with my full mouth (assuming it fits), moving my hand to the balls.
  • I have had a sore jaw for days after enthusiastically giving someone head.  Usually only happens with people I love.
  • Sometimes men try thrusting, and that doesn't really work, other than to make me feel like I am throwing up.  It's supposedly cool to overcome your gag reflex and take the penis into the back of your throat.  Doesn't work for me.  Made worse by men who grab the back of your head and push while thrusting.  That is unpleasant and makes me feel like I'm not in control, and that's beside the point.  That said, playing with my hair or ears is fine and gives me more signals that you are enjoying yourself.
  • I used to swallow semen (felt rude not to), but I don't anymore even though I have never had an STD.  I just take my mouth off when it's time and use my hand instead.  I have tried using a condom, but the increased friction makes it really hard.  I just contain my blow jobs to monogamous relationships as much as possible.
  • I confess that I don't find giving blow-jobs to be super hot or anything, but I do it because it makes people I love so happy.  I try lots of different things to see what they seem to respond to.
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